Mary Catherine Bateson talks about the random discontinuities
in our lives, the actual crux of the stories we tell:
Often
continuity is visible only in retrospect. There’s a process that occurs that
you don’t even know is going on…The discontinuities associated [with challenging life experiences] allow
more time for growth and change in a lengthened life span…Usually we think of
wisdom in terms of lofty abstractions, not survival skills, absolute truths, not
tactful equivocations. And yet the central survival skill is surely the
capacity to pay attention and respond to changing circumstances, to learn and
adapt, to fit into new environments…
(from Composing a Life, 1990)
(from Composing a Life, 1990)
1 comment:
It's always empowering to be reassured that my random discontinuities have a purpose. She's so right about the central survival skill and we need it whether we're in the Amazon jungle, the economic jungle or a technological jungle.
Thanks so much for sharing this Kathryn.
Lynn
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